I’m waiting impatiently in line at
the Post Office last Saturday to pick up my order of ridiculously expensive
shampoo. (Side note—it’s sooo not all it’s cracked up to be, and I have since
cancelled my “subscription.”) Anyway, I got there early because I had to go to
work. Who knew the post office wouldn’t open until 10:00? What a load of crap.
On what planet does the post office open at 10:00am? They should definitely be
open at 9:00. Strike one for the post office.
I’ve recently moved, so the
delivery of said “special shampoo” was sent back to the post office because for
some reason, they couldn’t forward it to my new address. All my other mail has
been forwarded, why not this? Seriously? How hard is it to forward a little box
with a couple of bottles of shampoo? I’m getting more irritated by the second.
Strike two.
Dammit! I’m going to be late for
work. This is such bullshit. I just want my flippin shampoo! I’m totally out
and I don’t want to go buy some “cheap” shampoo at CVS just to hold me over, because
then I’ll be stuck with a whole bottle that I won’t even use. Ugh! What is
taking so long? I just want to pick up my package and go to work!
I finally get to the front of the
line. I hand the man my slip and he goes to retrieve my package. He comes back
and tells me there is an additional $7 charge. “Why?” I ask. I already pay an ungodly amount of money for
this stupid shampoo that doesn’t even work, and now he’s telling me I need to
pay $7 more dollars? He tells me some bullshit about the package being sent
back, and that’s why there’s an extra charge, blah, blah, blah. Whatever. I
just need to get outta here. I hand him my debit card. He looks at me and tells
me that they can only do cash transactions because it’s Saturday. WHAT?!?!?!
Are you effin kidding me ? What the hell difference does it make what day it
is? The little magnetic stripe on my card is somehow magically deactivated on
Saturdays? I’ve never heard anything so stupid! Goddammit! I look in my wallet
and I have only $4 in cash. The post office clerk tells me that he cannot
release my package without cash payment. Strike 3 Post Office. You’re out.
I throw a fit. Okay, maybe that’s
a slight exaggeration, but I apparently was loud enough for a lady at the back
of the line to hear me. A small, Dark-Haired Woman of about 50 approaches me,
her hand extended with three one-dollar bills. “Here,” she says, in a thick
accent, “For you.” I look at her face and wonder what kind of person does this.
“No,” I say, completely stunned, “I can’t.” “Here,” she says again, and forces
the money into my hand. Her eyes are kind, and she touches my hand as she walks
back to her place in line. I am so touched; my mood immediately changes. “Thank
you, thank you!” I say, “Thank you so much!” I give the clerk the seven dollars
and get my package.
As I’m leaving, I stop to thank
the Dark Haired Woman again, and notice she is standing with a tall, dark man. “Thank
you so much!” I say again, “You just made my day. Really, I can’t thank you
enough. That was so sweet of you. Can I have your name and address so I can
send you back your money?” The Dark Haired Lady looks at me like she doesn’t
know what I am saying, but still has a warm smile on her face. “No, it’s okay,”
the man says, “Really, it’s not necessary.” I look at the man, he is smiling. I
walk out of the post office feeling like a total asshole, but somehow grateful
at the same time. Grateful that there are people like The Dark Haired Woman
that exist in the world. And even more grateful that I had had the good fortune
to have one cross my path.
This small act of kindness
totally changed not only my mood, but my outlook for the day. It snapped me out
of my hissy fit and put things into perspective. It’s really not worth it to
get that upset over a stupid bottle of shampoo.
And so, from the bottom of my
heart, Thank You, Dark Haired Woman. Your random act of kindness touched me and
has inspired me to do the same for others. I only hope that I can make such a
difference to someone as you did to me.